I'm not over you. The words we all say and we all want to hear.   That's not something that we want to say either.   I know a guy, Lance, i guess we could call him.   Well, I like Lance. A lot. But he doesn't really know I exisit. So, he and his gf were about two feet in front of me and they kissed and my heart literally broke.   The way he kissed her, the way he spun her away from her friends to have more time with the girl.    I wish he would do that with me.    But, I kind of just want him to be happy since he can't or won't be with me.    Help?